Never Expect...

It seems a pessimistic approach , but its true with evryone.The more you expect n the more u get frustrated. Not to expect is one step ahead in ladder of being happier.If you don't expect n still u get ,it gives a scintilating affect of surprise.Why not to stop brooding on what you don't get from others,rather appreciate what you possess.
But its in human nature to EXPECT.One expects n if it is not fulfilled,emotions get scattered.But why should I take things to heart.Different situations teaches different lessons...
It is better not to expect anything from anyone-it may be ur frnds,family or very closeones. Just learn n live happily."GOD HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES"

Comments

The Wanderer said…
hey, read this.. this is probably the answer to some of our problems...

http://nishiaggarwal.blogspot.com/2006/09/once-upon-time-when-i-was-sad.html
April 17, 2007 at 12:05 AM
ankitminglani said…
are sabse badiya baat hai yeh toh.. .. if you can really implement this...sab taraf khushi hogi hamesha ....hamesha :D
April 20, 2007 at 1:29 PM
Siddhi Agrawal said…
hmmmm...
but "implementation" remains
April 20, 2007 at 1:41 PM
Chiranjeev Singh said…
ya its a good thought and its a good way to live but a thing is cropping up in my mind-there are many good thoughts, many good paths, many good ideas and many many good texts but the thing that remains wanting is a good life.i dont want to discourage you to keep writing but i think its better to do it first and then the world will know what it is. i can write even more but i scare i may be doing the same thing.
April 20, 2007 at 2:07 PM
Siddhi Agrawal said…
good life comes if u do good,
n these r mere texts to inspire u in achieving that.Not only 4 world to know rather to make urself aware of ur inside being
April 20, 2007 at 2:23 PM
samira said…
each n evry word is true n its d only formula to be happy n life...expectations hurt like anything...so dont expect n be happy..very well written siddhi
April 20, 2007 at 2:32 PM
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April 20, 2007 at 2:35 PM
samira said…
each n every word here is true...its d only formula to be happy always...never expect anything n u ll b happy in life...when expectations r not fulfilld u get hurt a lot ...so dnt expect n try 2 give ur best to others...very well written siddhi

Nonia
April 20, 2007 at 2:37 PM
Aditya Deorha said…
i have thought about it many times before. the fact that you have realized it is commendable coz dis means dat u wil atleast start trying to reduce ur expectations. even i keep trying to do the same..
well from unkowns and acquaintances my level of expectation is just limited to a decent behaviour (cant go below dat :P ) . from friends i expect them to help me when i really need it. its lyk suppose i am getting bored and i really wanna go to a movie and my frnd refuses to it wont result in any kinda grudge against him. but when there is real need which if not done can cause a lot of harm then i expect my frnds to cum ova. the difference between friends and acquaintances is this only, an acquaintance may accompany u on the movie, but not when u really need him...
April 24, 2007 at 11:55 PM
Siddhi Agrawal said…
yup... dats right.
expectations frm frns n acquaintances
r diff.But stil y do we expect so much?see thr r some kinda expectations frm unknowns too.
April 27, 2007 at 11:23 AM
arunima said…
u spoke of frustration mate.. u feel frustrated when u expect sumthing, when u want sumthin.... d desires, d carving is all a part of lookin up... ie lookin up from d things u already possess and havin d urge for more.. but sometimes its important to look down- ie to take a look at d poeple who barely have nything in their life... in terms of money, family or whtever be it..... its good to have a certain carving that helps u set goals but sometimes just takin a look around u and of wht u already have can help in lettin a lil bit of that frustration out! tc!
April 28, 2007 at 8:16 AM
The Wanderer said…
I am expecting you to write a new post!!! :)

UPDATE!!!!!!!!!
May 12, 2007 at 2:18 PM
Mohit Kumar Saha said…
rightly said... bt i uld like 2 say a few wrds on dis... man may kno evrythng bt he surely dosent kno hw 2 control himself completly... isiliye life is nt simple bt its stranger dan fiction... 1 advice 2 all... plz plz plz... try 2 keep ur life as simple as possible... xpect bt dont expect so much dat if it dosent cm tru u r left helpless... be always optimistic nd always try 2 laugh away ur problems.....
May 21, 2007 at 2:37 PM
Siddhi Agrawal said…
ya , its right way to lead a life. Just laugh off on the probs n go ahead
May 21, 2007 at 2:41 PM
keshavi said…
Its a mature approach to life...though it seems the right one , it is very difficult to practice....you tend to expect a few things from your closed ones.
May 23, 2007 at 4:04 PM
Siddhi Agrawal said…
yup , u r right, hope maturedness comes along with life.
May 26, 2007 at 12:12 AM
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